(8Ā years, 3Ā months ago)
Commons ChamberRecently, I had to hire a car. It turned out that the cheapest and best option was to hire it from Birmingham airport. When I got in the car, I turned on the on-board sat-nav, and the last journey taken was to the Calthorpe clinic in Edgbastonāthe place I myself had been for an abortion a decade previously. I shuddered at the thought of the woman who had hired the car before me, not to go about her working life but to do something that I had taken completely for granted. I and the hon. Member for South Cambridgeshire (Heidi Allen) are not criminals.
Last week, I asked the women of Northern Ireland to get in touch and tell me their stories of travelling to England, Scotland and Wales. Today I am them, and here are some extracts:
āIt was Christmas Eve. I was with friends at a party and stepped outside for a breath of air and I was raped⦠My Mum had to book flights and booked me into a clinic. This all took money & I was from a working class family. We borrowed what we could and I left for London. Alone after Iād been Raped. Iād never travelled anywhere on my own.ā
āI was in a relationship of sorts withā
an abusive man.
āI knew that had I carried on with this pregnancy I would not only lose my job but my home and the ability to look after the children I already had. My consultant told me that following legal advice medical staff were not allowed to provide any information that would help anyone to get an abortion.ā
āI cried on the phone when I rang Marie Stopes in Belfast and they told me how much it would cost to book a medical abortion. Iā¦considered taking too many of the antidepressantsā¦not enough to kill myself but enough to induce a miscarriageā.
āI was 15, standing in McDonalds car park in the freezing December weather staring at a boy much older than me minutes after finding out I was pregnant. I was terrifiedā¦that someone would see me standing in my school uniform. I went to Liverpool two months before I turned 16, and 8 weeks after having sex with a boy who no longer wanted to know my name. The shame I felt lingered long after I had made the eight-hour boat journey back to Northern Ireland.ā
Paula Sherriff
I think my hon. Friend has ably demonstrated this in her speech, but does she agree that, for the vast majority of women, the decision to have an abortion, at whatever stage, is a heart-rending one and rarely taken without huge consideration?
I absolutely agree. I would also like to stick up for the women who are not the difficult cases, as well as those who are.
Let me return to the stories:
āThe taxi driver who picked us up in Birmingham from the flight was kind, he drove right past protestors outside the clinic and called them āhorrible peopleā. He wouldnāt accept mumās money for the fare. I realised he saw many girls like me, I wasnāt aloneā¦I did not want to travel on my own so had to wait till my friend got time off workā¦Leicester isnāt exactly easy to get to so we set off at 4 am for our flight, an hourās bus journey into Leicester, and another 45 mins on another bus just to get to the clinic. After the procedureā,
she and her friend had to go and catch another flight.
āAgain another two bus journeys that took near 3 hours this time to get back to the airport, another flightā.
They went back to the house,
ādrained, exhausted, emotional and sore.ā
She continues:
āThe night before I was due to fly to London I had some minor bleeding and by the time I boarded the plane I was in some discomfort. Immediately the plane took off I made my way to the toilet as I had started to bleed heavily. When a female steward eventually knocked at the door I told her I was unwell and suffered from heavy periods. Of course she must have known but she said nothing. I was first off the plane with the young steward who accompanied me to the public toilets in Heathrow airport. She tried to persuade me to see a doctor or nurse but I was terrified. I went into the cubicle, I passed everything into the toilet and flushed it. When I returned to Belfast I did see my GP who was horrified and told me I could have died.ā
The final story in my speech sums up what each and every woman who got in touch was sayingāand there were hundreds:
āDespite my mental health issues, despite an abusive partner, despite having no money and no real sense of where I was going, I was expected to have this baby. But I didnāt want to be pregnant. And thatās really why I went to England. Afterwards I felt sore, but mostly angry that Iād been made to board a plane because the government that laid claim to my country, demanded it, legislates better for its English citizens than its Northern Irish people. Because Westminster allows our women to be deprived of the basic human rights they give to their English citizens.ā